I'm sure this is in the wrong section, I've got a friend who has been TTC for just over a year now, I'm not too sure how hard out she's going eg temp etc or just seeing what happens, I'm actually not 100% sure if she is still trying as the way she was talking last time I saw her it sounded like she wasn't (but it may be a cover).
so how should I go about telling her that I'm pregnant, I only came off the pill in Feb this year so it happened quickly for us, but it hasn't for them.
This is a tough situation and i've been on both ends. When I miraculously fell pregnant with DS (I have endo so have low fertility) at 21 and everyone assumed it was an accident, I had a really hard time telling one of my beautiful friends who had at that point been trying for 4 years sad
I made sure that I was the one that told her and I called her to do it, not in person, as I didnt want her to feel pressure and not cry when I told her. She took it quite well, although she took a few weeks to come visit again - I completely understood.
Now I've been TTC #2 for over 2 years and one of my good friends fell pregnant within the first month of trying. She told me over the phone again and Yes it hurt, and yes I was jealous, but I was so happy and over the moon for her that I let all the other crap go and just celebrated with her. I have to admit, everytime I see her beautiful belly it physically hurts, but that is not her fault and I want her to know how excited I am for her.
Good luck with your situation, and you've already proven that you are a good friend for considering her and worrying about her smile