Anyway money is tight at the moment post wedding. Because we don't have a joint bank account I have his Internet banking password so I can pay the rent when it is due and check how much is left for shopping, etc. DH is forgetful so it's easier for me to do it. The small amount I get from centrelink is used to pay our bills.
Today I went to log on and he has changed the password on me...no warning or reason.
I'm a little offended. I haven't done anything wrong or spent money I shouldn't have. I KNOW it's his account but we have been together for 5 years, have a 1 year old and are married. I know I don't work but I do all the housework and stay at home to look after our son. He doesn't want me to go back to work so I really have no extra money to spend as the bills, shopping and DS comes first an there is a pittance left after that. He still manages to buy things for his car and fishing tackle each week. I never ever complain about this to him and I feel like he is spitting in my face by taking away my access to the family money.
Wow I didn't realize how hurt I was til I wrote this down.
Whats everyone's opinion?