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Quick cheating Q! Rss

First of all a big hello to every one.

I am new here but i need some opinions Please.

Is it or is it not technically speaking called cheating if your partner goes online to simply video (cam) sex with other women? By that i mean going online to a website talking to other woman putting his cam on getting them to put there cam on and they both show themselves and "play".

Any opinions would be greatly appreciated.
I guess everyone's opinions are different.

If it were me, I would class it as cheating - even though its not physical - and my hubby would be out the door!!
Are you serious???

This is so wrong on so many levels & YES it is cheating, being unfaithful, having no respect for the one you are with etc etc etc.

Pack your bags & walk out the door. You don't need to put up with that.
Welcome & hello grin
Thanks lady's.

I've had so many arguments with my partner over this issue.

What about a $500 phone bill for cheating what you do in that situation?
First of all a big welcome to you smile



I'm pretty sure you know the answer to this one though....
I would ahve to say, it's cheating aswell.

At what point is this ok? Why would your partner need to go and do that stuff to start with? attention??
Ok, so maybe it would be alright if BOTH you did it...what evr keeps you happy in your relationship.
But for your partner to go out and do that, it's pretty much like going out and having sex with random women.

I think its very unfaithful, very disrepectful. I wouldn't put up with it at all




Thanks lady's.

I've had so many arguments with my partner over this issue.

What about a $500 phone bill for cheating what you do in that situation?


Make him pay it.

Sounds like he doesn't value you or your relationship.

You can find someone who will treasure & respect you hun. grin
It's only a small step from web to physical. If they are doing that then there is always the chance they'll take it to the next stage because they got away with it.

If I was in that position I would abuse the people he'd done it with. Kick his ass, smash his computer and tell the world about what he'd done (I'm vindictive so I'd want to humiliate him as much as possible to make up for my humiliation). If you are in a committed relationship then there is no need to do that sort of thing. It shows a lack of respect for you and it'd be enough to make me walk out the door.
Porn is one thing but masturbating on camera while another is watching and doing the same thing is cheating. If he doesn't see it that way then he's not worth your time.

As for the $500 bill. It's his. All the bills would be his from now on. I'd make my own bills in a new house without him.

Agreed with others ^^^

thats is not acceptable at ALL! In my view its still cheating, i would class just talking on the phone with other women as a type of cheating!

Show him the door!
Good Luck x

(I'm vindictive so I'd want to humiliate him as much as possible to make up for my humiliation). If you are in a committed relationship then there is no need to do that sort of thing. It shows a lack of respect for you and it'd be enough to make me walk out the door.
Porn is one thing but masturbating on camera while another is watching and doing the same thing is cheating. If he doesn't see it that way then he's not worth your time.

As for the $500 bill. It's his. All the bills would be his from now on. I'd make my own bills in a new house without him.


I admire you ya know tongue



Just cos he's not physicaly touching these women (yet), doesn't it aint cheating.

And don't pay the bill!! He made it! why should you pay it?



My name was on the account that the mobile was connected with. Hence I get the black mark on my record. The bill has actually now ballooned up to $1000 for the rest of the plan it was on and legal costs.

We have two beautifull children that i would never give up now.

I am pregnant again.

I did change the passwords and abuse the other ladies and all that but it didn't help just turned violent.


He lost his job from cheating. I was a first time mum and partner at the time with no freinds family around. So couldn't ask for help. He had the only car so that was out.
YES that is cheating! Sorry but *
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