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Hello. My name is Emily. I’m 27 years old. And my DH is 30 years old. We have one princess. She is now 3 years old. My princess wants a brother for her. I and my husband trying but it’s not working. I don’t know why. I got pregnant once but for the second time it seems to be really difficult. I’m healthy and my husband is also healthy. But I don’t know what the problem is. Is there any secondary infertility problem? Or its just because of the age of my husband. Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.
Hey there Emily! I hope you're doing fine. Well, Emily, unfortunately, there is something called secondary infertility. And it is as common as normal infertility. You should go to the doctor and have tests done. Maybe it can be treated at the initial stage. I know it feels terrible but we can't help it. You're lucky that you can conceive and you have your little girl with you. A lot of people are desperate to have a baby. Anyway, you can go for IVF also. It feels like a natural pregnancy. Increases the chances of conceiving. There are a lot of fertility clinics around the world. I hope I was helpful. Good Luck!
Hey, I am sorry for the condition you are facing. I know the pain of infertility. Every woman wants a big family but for some it is hard. I was one of them until I found about surrogacy. I faced 3 miscarriages and after that, I was not able to conceive. I tied for many years but failed. I always wanted my own babies. I wanted to feel the baby inside me but that was fate. So I made my mind for surrogacy. I went for it to a clinic in Europe. I told them about me on Email already. They searched our match surrogate. I met her and she conceived in a week. After 9 months I was blessed. I was so happy that I found about this method. I would recommend you the same. Hope this would work.
Hi. Yes, I think this might be secondary infertility. Luckily, it is curable. Have you had any medical tests done? How long have you been TTC for? I know a friend who had secondary infertility. Instead of waiting too long, she went for IVF. I wouldn't suggest you to get IVF too soon, but if it's been a long time trying, then it's a good option.
Hi, honey, this is secondary infertility. It is very common. Don't worry, there is a way out. Many women have this problem. The solution is assisted conception. There are medication also but they don't guarantee success. Why waste money on them?
You guys are still very young. I dont see a problem with the age. It is secondary infertility though. It happens. Did you have a complicated labor? When your girl was born? Maybe it messed with your body. It happens. There is no need to worry. I have a suggestion. Go and see a doctor. Tell him about everything. They can tell you the reason. They will give you medicines. To improve fertility. And to make TTC easy.
Kreactiveanimation wrote:
Hello. My name is Emily. I’m 27 years old. And my DH is 30 years old. We have one princess. She is now 3 years old. My princess wants a brother for her. I and my husband trying but it’s not working. I don’t know why. I got pregnant once but for the second time it seems to be really difficult. I’m healthy and my husband is also healthy. But I don’t know what the problem is. Is there any secondary infertility problem? Or its just because of the age of my husband. Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.


Hello dear! Well, first of all. Congrats on your daughter! You guys are lucky to have one. Yes! Sometimes, it happens that way. Getting pregnant again become really a tough task. So, yeah! I think you should get it diagnosed with an obstetrician. So, yeah! Secondly, no I don't think so...Because, you both are still fine with age/young. So, don't worry that way! Hope you find your answers. smile
Hey, Emily, I hope you are doing well. Age cannot be an issue since both of you are very young. You are suffering through secondary infertility. It is quite common amongst couples these days. However, since the technology has improved there are so many options that you can opt for. Just stay calm and positive about it. Infertility journey can be a difficult one but I am sure everything will get better. The first step that you should be taking is to visit the doctor. Visit a clinic which has a doctor with high success rates. It is important that they have knowledge about these issues and are professionals. I realized the importance of this when I shifted clinics and went to another one. Here I learned so much because of the doctors. Best of luck! A lot of women consider opting for IUI and IVF in your condition. Look into them!
Kreactiveanimation wrote:
Hello. My name is Emily. I’m 27 years old. And my DH is 30 years old. We have one princess. She is now 3 years old. My princess wants a brother for her. I and my husband trying but it’s not working. I don’t know why. I got pregnant once but for the second time it seems to be really difficult. I’m healthy and my husband is also healthy. But I don’t know what the problem is. Is there any secondary infertility problem? Or its just because of the age of my husband. Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.


Hi there! Sometimes it happens that way. Secondary infertility exists and even I've heard of cases of unexplained infertility? So, yeah! Get a second opinion of tests and stuff? Yes! I mean so, you can know better! What the reason behind your inability to conceive? Yeah! I'm also undergoing surrogacy this year. As I can't have it the natural way. So, yeah. Wish me luck! Stay blessed! smile SEEK YOUR OPTIONS! You can have ways? Let me know, I'll guide you better. smile
Hey there Emily. How are you doing? I hope it all great. I am really sorry to hear about your issue. I know it must be really hard. However please don't give up. Have you been to the doctor? Did they tell you anything? You cant determine the cause just like this. Your age is not old at all. I hope you get what you want. I wish you good luck. take care and lots of love. and prayers too. I am sure it will all work out.
Hey. How are you doing? Sorry to hear about your struggles. Yes, this could be due to secondary infertility. You should talk to your doctor. It would be great if you can find out what is causing all this. This would help you find a better solution for this. You could TTC with some medication. That might work for you. If that doesn't work, do not worry. there are other ways to have a baby too. You can consider that for yourself. But I'm sure it won't get to that. Hopefully, medication might work. Good luck TTC. Hope you conceive soon.
AshleyH wrote:
Hi, honey, this is secondary infertility. It is very common. Don't worry, there is a way out. Many women have this problem. The solution is assisted conception. There are medication also but they don't guarantee success. Why waste money on them?

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