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Right at the moment our family is not very large, there are only three of us. But we’re planning to have more children now when we know that there is no absolute infertility. I wanna share our story for you not to give up even when it seems that there is no way out. We had been married for 11 years by the time we decided to have a child. We both became financially independent so, we could spend several years just looking after the baby without thinking of money. I insisted on doing repairs in our house for the child to meet new atmosphere. We did all the preparations and were looking forward the news. A year passed, but nothing happened. We started thinking that we couldn’t conceive naturally. After two months more we decided to go through thorough diagnostics. We were astonished with the results – unexplained infertility. It means no cause of infertility had been found despite evaluation for common causes. In different clinics they offered different treatment. It varied from IUI to IVF with egg donation. We were in despair, because we didn’t know what to do; we even didn’t know the reason. Was it in me or in my husband; and we blamed ourselves in turn.. All this is the thing from the past now. Baby dust to all of you, lovelies.
Hi girl. Hope you are doing well. I'm sorry, you felt this way. I know it gets really frustrating. People forget minding their own business. They don't really care you know. They ask things out of curiosity. The best you can do here is put on a fake smile on your face and tell as minimal as possible. I try to keep it this way. TTC is hard enough. We don't need any more negativity from people around us. I hope you conceive soon. Have you considered assisted conception for yourself? You should, in my opinion. I hope your problems get solved soon!
Hey, I can totally understand your situation. I think your DH shouldn't have done that. However, I am sure it must have been unintentionally done. Maybe you should talk about it with him directly. Be more open towards one another. In situations and journey's like these problems do occur. Lastly, I would want to say that if you have been trying for a year. Maybe its time to visit the doctor. He/she will really be able to help in determining if the problem is with you stressing or its something else. I believe you shouldn't delay it any longer. Visit a good clinic for this purpose. The more professional the better it is. Sending good vibes. Don't be upset I am sure things will get better. Sending baby dust your way.
It's so hard to read there are so many of us struggling! I'm 36 with 1 kid conceived naturally. But I wanted just 1 more. We'd been trying for about 18 months on and off when finally turned to med help. I got really serious about it. Supplements, acupuncture, no wine (kind of a biggie lol). I know the struggle of wanting a baby and not being able to get pregnant and how hopeless you can feel. While I know it might be a long shot (since I have 1 ovary and POF). Also time was not on my side. So we went down the IVF route. I did have a couple of bad days after I’d get AF but I’d pick myself up and carry on. I was struggling to carry on normal life, but felt an emotional wreck quite often. I was trying so hard to hide it and put on a brave face to everyone outside my house. My husband has always been my rock and normally the optimistic one. He kept me sane.. I was just wanting one more child - what's so bad about this?! Why should this be an endless game of waiting and hoping and seeing negatives every other time?! Little could be done over this..Now this is the note from my past. I'm hoping for all of you that better sooner than later you'll have your little ones on board!
Natashaa23 wrote:
Hi girl. Hope you are doing well. I'm sorry, you felt this way. I know it gets really frustrating. People forget minding their own business. They don't really care you know. They ask things out of curiosity. The best you can do here is put on a fake smile on your face and tell as minimal as possible. I try to keep it this way. TTC is hard enough. We don't need any more negativity from people around us. I hope you conceive soon. Have you considered assisted conception for yourself? You should, in my opinion. I hope your problems get solved soon!

The right choice is of huge importance. Willingly share. We experienced 2 failed ivf cycles with a clinic in Greece. This is what we faced/had. I did voice my concerns that I couldn't see how I could get prego when their process stresses me out. They wanted me to put in writing for them to learn from my experience. But I didn't. I felt I was not there to assist in their how to act as professionals sessions. I told them what I felt was wrong with their staff being a bit abrupt and the Specialists not doing their own procedures, so that was it from me . I am not their personal training ground. I do realise we are playing with nature, but some respect is still required! With biotex we experienced this absolutely vice versa. And we're so thankful for that! Struggling couples like us should be taken care of with respect and support. We're thankful our current clinic's stuff understands this.?
I know exactly what you're going through. It must have been awful. You've done the correct thing, though. Joining these forums is really helpful. I'm sure you'll find a lot of help. All one needs at such times is a person who we can relate to. Good luck to you. I genuinely hope this has a happy ending.
Hey. I hope you're alright. I know exactly what you're going through. It must have been awful. You've done the correct thing. Joining these forums is really helpful. I'm sure you'll find a lot of help. All one needs at such times is a person who we can relate to. It works like a charm, to be honest! Good luck to you. I hope things get better instantly for you. I hope you put this experience behind you. I genuinely hope your story has a happy ending. You deserve it! Sending lots of baby dust your way.
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