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Snow81458 wrote:
hi dear!!!! i can understand the pain. but stay strong. And for the surrogacy. surrogacy, really a great of hope to the infertile. when they find no way to get rid of infertility. it is really a great blessing. my aunt went for surrogacy and she is enjoying a happy family life. we must pay a great tribute to the medical science and researchers as well. I wish you very good luck. a lot of baby dust to you.

The laws around this practice differ greatly depending on the country or state you’re in. In Britain, for example, only altruistic surrogacy is legal. sS no money is allowed to change hands. Others will allow surrogate mothers to charge as much as they see fit for remuneration. Yet some will only allow medical expenses to be paid. However, in locations where using a surrogate mother is completely permitted, people might travel to somewhere that it is allowed, like Ukraine for example. It has become very popular these days. IP from all over the world come there for surrogacy. And no wonder. Law there permits surrogacy and regulates it well. You pay less money for the same services. (In some cases you even get more attractive list of services then somewhere else) I believe this is 'cause of competitiveness in this sphere. But here one should be aware of clinics' rates. I mean high success rates don't usually mean high live birth rates after treatments with them. Study this point well to avoid scams like Adonis or Lotus. The huge work is laid upon the IP's shoulders before actual begining of the process. This is time amount spent on self educating and thorough research. But it's all worthy to get success at the end.
Having a baby is not impossible now. You can consider other options. Talk to your doctor about it. See what your options are. I'm sure something will work out for you. I know times are hard right now. But in the end, everything will be worth it. Don't lose hope.
Sorry to hear about this. You know a lot of people are going abroad these days for such procedures. I did it because it was more affordable there. Infertility treatments are really expensive in my country. I could barely afford it. I'm glad I found a place that didn't try to rip me off. I hope you find one too.
Infertility treatments can cost many thousands of dollars and involve strong drugs or hormones. It can also be an emotional roller coaster. Knowing your limits will keep you from being talked into some new procedure that you really don't want and can't afford. When it's time to choose a clinic, do thorough research ahead of time. Keep in mind that some fertility centers that looked great several years ago may have had a lot of turnover in staff and may have gone downhill in quality. But the numbers give you a place to start.
Surrogate mothers in Ukraine have no rights on the child. As a rule, parent of the child is indicated by the biological father who provided the sperm. That's why for the program of surrogate motherhood in Ukraine can go only married couples. And for the same reason Ukraine do not cooperate with homosexual couples. Mother will be register as a parent if her egg been used instead of donors. Here's the list of documents for the the registry office:
a statement of the spouses parents;
birth certificate;
a notarized statement of agreement of a surrogate mother to record the spouses parents of the baby;
Information about the genetic relationship of the child's father;
Parent’s passports;
Parent’s marriage certificate;
Register office is not allowed to ask for:
the contract between the genetic parents and the surrogate mother (it’s a confidential document);
surrogate mother’s presence while child registration;
appeals to the guardianship.
Here's the outline of the currently avaliable packages in our clinic~
All-inclusive standard 39900 euros:
You will be provided a cellphone with a Ukrainian carrier for communication.
You will stay at a villa or hotel.
A pediatrician will see your child every other day after birth.
Regardless of how far along the surrogate is, if the case of miscarriage, abortion, or death of child, the agency will take care of the cost of paying the surrogate and finding a new one.
In case your baby is born premature, the agency will pay all medical fees regardless.
If you have twins, you must pay an additional €3000 after birth.
You will have 4 hours of nursery and babysitting services available to you every day.
You cannot be at the birth of the baby – you will be able to meet your baby after the hospital clears the baby for leaving the hospital.
All-inclusive VIP 49900 euros:
You will be provided a cellphone with a Ukrainian carrier for communication.
You will stay in a standard room at the Venice Hotel or a luxury apartment for the first two visits, and on your final visit, you will stay in a bigger suite that specially equipped for babies (I’m assuming this means a crib, but am not certain).
You’ll receive a Newborn Package that includes all the things you’ll need when you start to take care of the baby.
You will receive PGD services, which helps eliminate poor embryos and also allows for gender selection.
A pediatrician will see your child every day, and there is also a 24/7 hotline for English-speaking Pediatricians, who can come visit you at any time if necessary.
Regardless of how far along the surrogate is, if the case of miscarriage, abortion, or death of child, the agency will take care of the cost of paying the surrogate and finding a new one.
In case your baby is born premature, the agency will pay all medical fees regardless.
If you have twins, there is no additional fee.
You will have 9am – 6pm nursery and babysitting services available to you every day.
You may attend the birth of your baby.
Hope someone will find this useful. Good luck.
I myself am visiting a clinic in this vicinity and they are doing a phenomenal job. At first, I was also confused just like you. However, now that I have opted for it is the best decision I have ever made. Therefore, my advice to you would be to go for it. It is always better to start a process than to delay it. Good luck to you. If you need any additional information do let me know. Sending baby dust your way.
Hello dear! Thank you for your message. I'd suggest Ukraine because of the following:

- Surrogacy in Ukraine is the most affordable and legally secure option for heterosexual couples looking to start a family

- Supportive legislation (e.g. the fact of surrogacy stays confidential and the names of intended parents are specified on the original birth certificate; it also regulates the process and protects the surrogates` and donors` rights)

-Ukraine follows a modern legal tradition. Federal regulations explicitly support surrogacy contracts for heterosexual married couples. The law in Ukraine specifically states that the baby "belongs" to the intended parents and the surrogate mother has no prenatal rights. Embryo donation is legal and egg donation is regulated by law

-Proximity to Europe. Moreover, Europeans, Americans and UK citizens do not need a special visa to enter Ukraine

-Ukraine enjoys relatively high living standards and surrogate mothers are accustomed to safe living conditions and availability of healthy organic food

I hope it was helpful. Good luck and sending you a cloud of baby dust!

Best wishes, World Center of Baby
https://www.worldcenterofbaby.com

It is ok to feel this way! You shouldn't go ahead if you are not completely sure about this. Rushing in such situations is never good. I'll tell you what I did here. I called the clinic I plan on going to. I explained how I'm confused about this. They guided me through the whole thing. I used to email them every time I had a query. They replied with the answer immediately. You should try talking to them too.
You shouldn't waste your time! These decisions should be taken quickly. However, don't rush into choosing a clinic. It requires a lot of patience and extensive research. I would suggest you go for it, right away. There's nothing wrong in that. These methods are quite expensive. You would want your money to be safe, even if something goes south. So, it's important to find a good clinic. There are lots of good clinics in Europe. Some of them provide such services for fewer amounts of money. You should keep searching for good ones. Do let me know if you need some help with it. I would gladly help you out. Good luck on your journey, honey!
Hello. I am so sad about your condition. I know it must be so difficult for you. I am glad that you are taking the correct choice. Surrogacy is an astounding procedure. It is a gift for some ladies.

Best wishes, World Center of Baby
https://www.worldcenterofbaby.com

The IVF program is usually performed in 4 steps:
1. Defining the date for initial consultation and sending the list of required documents:
Transvaginal ultrasound check results.
Breast ultrasound check results (if you’re younger than 50 and had never had any breast problems) or mamography results (if you’re over 50 or had any breast problems in the past).
Chest X-ray (for both you and your partner/dh).
Doctor’s certificate that you’re healthy enough to carry out a baby and that pregnancy is not prohibited for you.
Sperm count (if avaliable).
2. Initial consultation. You and your partner/dh come to the clinic to undergo the required tests:
Blood tests for both.
Pap smear.
Sperm count.
The doctor studies your medical records. She performs transvaginal ultrasound check and evaluates your chances to successfully accomplish the program. She makes the decision whether the program can be performed and authorize the program. Since that you’re allowed to sign the agreements and you can make the 1st payment. The doctor explains you the treatment plan. The clinic gives you medications needed for your subsequent stimulation protocol.
3. You’re following the treatment plan. You make the needed ultrasound checks according to the protocol of stimulation and synchronization. When the date of your 2nd visit is defined you need to come to Kiev for the embryo transfer. Here be ready to spend there up to 7-10 days.
4. After the embryo transfer is performed you will be given the protocol to follow and medications according to the protocol. Those meds are intended to increase the chances to achieve and successfully support pregnancy. In 2 weeks after embryo transfer you need to make the blood test for HCG level in your blood. You send the results to the clinic. Their obligations are considered to be fulfilled after the pregnancy reaches the term of 12 weeks.
Hope this helps.
PamSmith26 wrote:
You shouldn't waste your time! These decisions should be taken quickly. However, don't rush into choosing a clinic. It requires a lot of patience and extensive research. I would suggest you go for it, right away. There's nothing wrong in that. These methods are quite expensive. You would want your money to be safe, even if something goes south. So, it's important to find a good clinic. There are lots of good clinics in Europe. Some of them provide such services for fewer amounts of money. You should keep searching for good ones. Do let me know if you need some help with it. I would gladly help you out. Good luck on your journey, honey!

For the majority ivf is the money matter. I wonder if it's same for you. Still underwent ivf with donor egg overseas, BTC. The clinic offers 2 cycles for EUR 6,900 (EUR 3,450 per cycle). 5 cycles for EUR 9,900 (EUR 1,980 per cycle). All of the packages include donor eggs, all medications, transfer from/to the airport and from/to the clinic, accommodation, interpreter and legal services. For more reviews please do pm me.
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