I always wanted babies and was pregnant very quickly. I have 7 children and a grandchild. But every pregnancy I have become more frighten of childbirth. And pleas for a C- Section fall of deaf ears. I recently miscarried and feel tremendous guilt and saddness. I wanted the baby but the fear of labour stressed me terribly. I do want to try again as I miss the baby so much. But afraid of labour ,yes even after 7 births.
Why won,t some medical professions let people choose how a baby is delivered. We are all different.
As when a baby should come into our families ,generally no set times ,usually at the most busy time.
I,ve been a younger mum and an older mum ,now a grandmother. Just go with the flow.