well I would love to know her expert opinions on my c-sections - lol smile
#1 true emergency distressed bub and mum, long labour, lots of complications
#2 was booked as an elective, waters broke early and then nothing..... the hospital classified me as an emergency as my waters had broken yet I kept on being bumped down the list as more genuine emergencies arose.
#3 elective (but not really as i had placenta previa so VBAC wasnt an option I could consider)
anyway, I know you have now moved on, just wanted to add my 2 cents worth wink
as for the friendship factor - i had one very draining friendshp that I have moved on from and initially felt guilty but I am now overall so much happer:)
Hoping you have refound your zen smile
Mr J (April 2005) Miss Z (Feb 2007) and Miss O (Oct 2010)