This may sound a little "airy" but bare with me. I miscarried my second child 18 months ago at 12 weeks. This is what I believe. I believe that every baby has a sole and a destiny. Each soul is destined to come into the world and just needs a physical body to come into - so to speak. If that physical body is not right for whatever reason they need to start again. After my miscarriage I conceived my little boy 2 months later and he is a beautiful little person. I believe it was him trying to be born in May but had a hold up and instead he arrived in October. My Nephew had 3 false starts before my sister gave birth to him. I believe these priceless little souls are destined to be ours to nuture, some just have a few delays in getting here.