I was wondering if any one out there has lost a twin. I had twins boys in Feb 07 at 29 weeks. Both Jett and Kai were doing well for their size and were out of the most intensive level at KEMH in WA. At 16 days, Jett died from NEC which affects the bowels. The devastation is too hard to describe. You are grieving but you also have to be strong for the other twin who survived. Kai spent 9 weeks in hospital and is fighting fit now, but I often wonder how many other women there are out there coping with this unique loss. I have counselling with a lady who also lost a twin years ago who is great. I would to love hear from other women who had had the same experience as the loss is still as painful as it was on the day Jett died.
Mum to Kai- 5 months