I am totally sypathetic! My inlaws can be a little oppinionated on this, my mother in law has even said that if she doesn't like the name we pick, she'll make up a nickname!
So what we have decided on is, we know it is a girl on the way, and we told everyone that, so when they ask for a name, we tell them that it will be a surprise for everyone!
Something else I thought, was that, when you are pregnant and tell people what names you like people will say "I don't like that" quite openly, but after the baby is born, they will be too busy gooing and gaaing, plus they won't want to offend you!
I hope this is some help!
PS Tell the inlaws that you will have to give the baby an alternate surname to go with their suggestions, that might make them back off a little!
Amy & daughters Jada 10/07/06, Alana 07/04/08